Sunday, November 26, 2006
写给吴虹飞。
说实话,不想来这里吵闹,特别是刚才细细的读了你写的blog文章。觉得你也是一个脆弱的,有很多苦闷的人。吵闹多了,会伤害你。
可是,说实话,写黄健翔的那篇文章,实在是不怎么友好。也许你觉得写得公平,那是因为你心里的公平本来就是否定的。
你拒绝他的男权主义色彩。因为那与你的理念不容。你实际上厌恶这样性格的男人,所以无法把他所有妄自尊大的言辞当作笑谈。
对于他的真实:他对记者的不掩饰的排斥,你也是排斥的。而这种排斥,你也并没能成功的掩饰——如果你试图掩饰了的话。
其实,我是不喜欢现在新闻的一种写作风气的。一些引语,一些事实,它们通通都是真实的。可是它们被割裂了。
什么叫做断章取义?失去了语境的句子其实是毫无意义的。是破碎的。是虚假的。是有伤害性的。
这不是你一个人的错。但是是你的的确确在写黄健翔的文章中犯的一个错。
这样的行为,使得一切所谓的真实都不再无辜。相反的,它们成为一种攻击的武器和途径,更深的伤害他人。
一句话,以不同的语气说出,其表达的效果有多么显著的差异?更何况是凭空添加了一些引导性的语句?
你并不喜欢记者这份工作。我觉得。不知道你为什么要做这个,还做了这么久。
你觉得这一切都不值得。都是在耗散你的青春。你被迫放弃了你本有的才华,扑在一堆垃圾上面任劳任怨的工作。
这是不是比黄健翔的所作所为还虚伪?不敢于拒绝,却仍尖刻的抱怨。
至少,他选择了离开。他选择了表达。也许他迁怒于人。也许他风度尽失。但是他是真实的。
换言之,你宣扬着自己强大的能力,鄙视着自己的职责。却毫无行动去改变现状。也许,这对于你,对于记者这个行当,都是一种损失和伤害。
我想,我对于黄健翔并没有本来的好感。对于你,更没有无端的厌恶。
但是,也许你真的该好好想想,你这样自然的在他如此狼狈的时刻伤害他,有没有你自己对自己的恐惧在里边?
你是不是本身就恐惧看到一个他这样的人,做着他那样的事情,而这一切与你的原则是如此的不同?
落井下石是一件多么容易的事情。也是一件多么自然的事情,在这个以揭秘丑闻为乐的时代。
我也自省,是不是在对你落井下石。特别是,我躲在暗处。你在被攻击的明处。
但是,我想,既然你本身的作为支持着这样的行为的正义性,我也许可以不那么内疚的作一次这样委琐的事。
不要一味的自我保护了。这样并不能使你安全。也不能使你快乐。
希望你能过你喜欢的,适合你才情的生活。那样你才能阳光,活力,自由,满足感。
同时,也会有一些人免于受到出自一个充满否定情绪的你的攻击。
至少,我相信,真正的记者该表达的是具有意义的真实。哪怕是自私的,偏激的。
最后一句话,你不看足球的吧?
一些链接:
狷狂黄健翔,南方周末(2006-11-23):
http://www.nanfangdaily.com.cn/zm/20061123/xw/zmxwzt/200611230011.asp
引:“让黄健翔承认错误是件很困难的事情———他是个活得很自我的人。”
黄老师,吴虹飞blog(2006-11-19):
http://blog.sina.com.cn/u/474243c80100064t
引:“黄健翔的稿子我已经写了12个小时了,今天还要继续写下去。我觉得都要崩溃了。好几次我就想,只要我写完这个,我再不做记者了。”
疯狂,吴虹飞blog(2006-11-21):
http://blog.sina.com.cn/u/474243c80100065s
引:“就算他有多重要,在我心里这里,是不值得花费这么多时间的。这一切,只是我尚且看重我的职责。这高于一切,这是职务行为。整整一个礼拜。围着一个人转。这是我过去的采访里,从未出现过的状况。”
《南方周末》的记者,您采访完了就不认人啦?董路blog(11-24)
http://blog.sina.com.cn/u/46e815bb010006hb
引:“舍生取义少了,断章取义多了;移孝为忠少了,移花接木多了……稿子刊登之前的一天,我连打三个电话,你不接;稿子刊登之后的一天,我再打你还是不接,只回了条短信,俩字:‘何事’?”
论南方周末采访的公允,董路blog(11-25)
http://blog.sina.com.cn/u/46e815bb010006hu
引:“恶意与善意、中立与偏颇不仅仅取决于你所引用的话是否是真实的,更取决于你为什么只引用一部分的真实而忽略另一部分的真实,同时,也在于你在引用对方话语的时候,是否有相应的描述以便让读者更清晰地了解其言语中真正的含义。”
你自己说的自己的提问很愚蠢,我只是笑了笑.黄健翔
blog
http://blog.tom.com/blog/read.php?bloggerid=876476&blogid=50964
引:“南方周末的记者,编造的本领真强.无耻!诬赖!无聊!我也不要求你们道歉,我就天天骂你们,有机会在别的媒体采访我的时候我也会顺便骂你们这些无耻之徒.”
黄建翔真是丧心病狂了,恶毒攻击吴虹飞师姐,水木清华bbs(11-25)
http://www.smth.org/bbstcon.php?board=Football&gid=597647
引:“昨天,针对《南方周末》的一篇深度专访稿,黄健翔连发博客文章表示自己的愤慨,黄健翔在个人博客中毫不掩饰自己的情绪,他直接用‘良心都被狗吃了啊 ’、‘你就不怕你遭报应啊?’这样的过激言辞攻击文章作者。显而易见,黄健翔被这篇报道彻底激怒了,用如此激烈的言辞在自己的博客里直接攻击文章作者,这 在以前是绝无仅有的。作为当事人之一,也许只有黄健翔自己最清楚当时接受《南方周末》那位女记者采访时都说了些什么。已经承受巨大压力的黄健翔这一次毅然 决然地选择奋起‘宣战’,这种不顾一切的态度也许又将让他陷入新一轮的舆论漩涡。”
被斥记者回应黄健翔:辩解并不重要我有录音作证,新浪(11-25)
http://sports.sina.com.cn/c/2006-11-25/13452587712.shtml
引:“黄健翔昨日在自己的博客上对《南方周末》的特约撰稿人突然发难之后,这个真名叫吴虹飞,可能是最近这段时间采访黄健翔时间最长的女记者显得非常无奈 加无助,她甚至拒绝去看黄健翔的博客:‘因为那可能让我今夜无法入睡。’但最终她还是拿了笔来,不是还击,而且陈述。”附吴虹飞个人简历。
Saturday, November 25, 2006
超炫新世代礼物秀~(3)
于是本店主决定把For The Kids专题也贴出来。。以飨心理年龄非常低幼的某只。。。
1.drive-by-wire
Don the headset and you'll see what Spy Video Car from shop.wildplanet.com sees. You control it with the remote, and its infrared camera transmits a live video feed to the black-and-white screen inside the eyepiece. It's perfect for domestic espionage-but not too perfect. The Spy Video Car is noisy enough to let parents always know where it is. Under Spy Gear, $140.
2.digital beanbag(又是一个让我狂汗的定语。。现在小破孩儿们玩得,那都是高科技!咳泰克!)
Don the headset and you'll see what Spy Video Car from shop.wildplanet.com sees. You control it with the remote, and its infrared camera transmits a live video feed to the black-and-white screen inside the eyepiece. It's perfect for domestic espionage-but not too perfect. The Spy Video Car is noisy enough to let parents always know where it is. Under Spy Gear, $140.
(我连Xbox都没有呢我。。。想起了前两天在电子杂志上看到的“最新ipod配件”:一辆可以放置两个ipod并外放的汽车。。)
3.My Office
The furniture at Moderntots.com is pricey yet irresistible, particularly the P'kolino Klick, a $285 desk for preschoolers. Beautifully crafted out of Baltic birch, it features a handy storage compartment underneath the vinyl-padded seat; choose red, blue, orange, green or purple. Another must-have: the kid-size Mod Rocker, $350.
4.stylish sledding
Slide over, Flexible Flyer. This Peak Toboggan from Sparkability.com in Germany, $370, will send your kid down the slopes in style. The frame is molded plywood, the seat nylon webbing. Sparkability also stocks three kinds of LikeABike (the training cycle with no pedals) and the Oko Trike from Italy, a spectacle of a thing with a padded saddle, extra-large wheels and a sunshade.
5.beyond sandcastles(可以看作对玩沙长大的一代的歧视。。。)
A My Little Sandbox playset from Be Good Company, $27, requires that kids use both their imagination and their fine-motor skills. The 10-in.-sq. box includes a generous scoop of ultrafine sand - got a hand vac? - and themes range from Space Patrol to Beach Party. Toys and More, run by two discerning moms in upstate New York, stocks all eight. (以杨立伟为梦想~)
6.Rocking!
Zebrahall.com's $135 Woodstock mini guitar, aimed at kids ages 6 and up, is 7 in. shorter than a standard-size guitar. It has six tunable metal strings (they also break like regular guitar strings, so parents, watch the sharp ends) and a built-in speaker-no amp required. Find it in Zebra Hall's new Music Room, along with panpipes, xylophones and Cha Cha Cha acoustic stilts.
(看到第一行结尾处。。。age 6。。。超小小帅哥哇。。)
嗯,这回真的没了。嘻嘻。
超炫新世代礼物秀~(2)
1.some big soccer fans
This vintage England national-team jacket from WorldRugbyShop.com, suitable for both soccer and rugby fans, is available for $60 at 365 Inc.'s rugby superstore, along with a comprehensive selection of shirts-the same jerseys real ruggers from around the world wear on the field. Shop by country or team. A commemorative World Cup 2007 Gilbert rugby ball is $30.
2.show off your shoes
A self-funded alliance of "sneaker heads" based in Hong Kong, Kix-files.com makes limited editions and vintage styles from Nike and other brands available to anybody willing to pay for overseas shipping ($35 for delivery in three to five days). The Adidas Rio, $90, is a new release; an illustration of the Brazilian city's famous statue of Christ decorates the tongue.
上面这两个还很正常些!不知道作推荐排行的人是不是觉得花钱买这些facility的人也非常难以理解呢。。。哈哈
3.hi-tech drinkware(看看这定语。。。)
Bodum's new Manhattan line of double-walled borosilicate glasses look heavy but are actually quite light. An air pocket protects a chilled drink from your warm hand and won't cloud even after repeated runs through the dishwasher. The "thermo glass" is heat resistant, so it can serve hot beverages too. Martini glasses, one of five types to choose from, are $20 each.
4.(看图能猜到是啥么东东么。。)fresher wine!
The PEK Preservino from Wine Enthusiast.com uses argon instead of nitrogen to keep wine fresh for up to two weeks after opening. The $40 kit includes injector, gas cartridge and two stoppers. The trick is to buy wine that's worthy: Wamonthly.com, which ships to 32 states, will send four carefully selected bottles with producer profiles and tasting notes for $100.
5.wearable plastic(塑料这个词,怎么也不好和这个价格联系起来哇)
Oscar de la Renta, a recent Web convert, launched an online store in September to sell shoes and boots, handbags, fragrance and eyewear, like this pair of "wrapped plastics" for $320. Product pages are elegant yet spare-sometimes too spare (item descriptions can be a bit thin)-but you can chat live with an operator if you have any questions.
(btw,这个column叫送给臭美的人,For The Fashion Hound,嗯,只选了这一件作为代表)
6.for the cook
The terrific shopping blog mightygoods.com first turned us on to Perpetual Kid's site and the Ex, a stainless-steel knife set with "cathartic" voodoo-style holder, for $70. Blades slide in and stay put thanks to magnets inside each body part-er, knife slot. We also dig the site's tiny elephant bottle opener (the trunk works the cap free) for $8 and the plastic "human" soap dispenser, also $8; pump the round head, and liquid cleanser squirts out of the mouth.
最后,发现还有一个专题,叫做For The Humanitarian,赫赫,想起了FRIENDS里的Pheobe。嗯,估计有了这个推荐,给像她那样的人准备礼物也不用犯愁了。可以重点关注一下注释里说了啥,就会明白为什么叫做for。。。一个那么严重的词汇。
7.From all corners of the globe to all corners of your home
The jewelry, home décor and accessories sold at TenThousandVillages.com are exported from all corners of the globe by fair-trade cooperatives that help provide indigenous workers with tools, training and wages. This soothing sculpture, $68, is hand-carved by members of the Lac Thank workshop in Vinh Phuc province, Vietnam. The sandstone comes from a local quarry.
8.toys for survival
Visit Eco-Artware.com to meet Baby Cinnamon Bear, $26, one of several critters handmade by the Kenana knitters of Kenya. The wool, which comes from local sheep, is spun on old bicycle wheels and colored with natural plant dye. Sales of the toys help 550 farm women in the village of Njoro support themselves and their families. Visit kenanausa.com for more info.
注意到the wool is spun on old bicycle wheel,就发现这样礼物这是非常有感觉啊!
fancy的同时,这些小玩意儿其实也蛮有哲学滴。
嗯,秀time结束啦。呱唧呱唧。
东西可爱,就是太贵了。
当然,如果谁银行卡突然多了1million不意之财,欢迎你买全套送给我啊。
超炫新世代礼物秀~(1)
贴几个看来得好玩东西,它们被列在某一个礼品购物指南里,专属For The Hard To Please的column,所以,值得看看。
1.for the commuter
注释:Playaway's audiobooks aren't designed for digital-media mavens with iPods who are accustomed to downloading content off the Net. They're pocket-size and preloaded for people who just want to press Play and go. The collection includes more than 200 titles-new fiction, literary classics, books for kids, how-tos, humor-for $30 to $55 each, earbuds included. Visit store.playawaydigital.com.
2.for the gadget geek
注释:Is it a stress ball? No. Back massager? Wrong again. This rubber USB hub, $18 at momastore.org, gives you three ports for the price of one. Find it in Home Accessories, under Radios and Electronics, next to some bamboo earphones and Muji cardboard speakers. Museum members get a discount.
3.for the officemate
注释:Quincyshop.com has an eye for goofy desk accessories, like this 4-in. robot pencil sharpener, $6. It winds up as you whittle, then takes a walk when you're done. Thinkgeek.com also sells it, plus a $5 plastic ninja attack gun perfect for cube warfare.
4.for new parents
At sparkability.com, click Baby Gear to find the Philips DECT monitor, $200. It's designed not to interfere with other household devices and scrambles the signal, so neighbors can't listen in. The receiver tracks room temperature and works as a two-way radio, allowing you to soothe baby ("Go to sleep!") without leaving the couch.
5.for the decorater
The colorful Karlsson Blocks Clock, $88 at chiasso.com, purveyor of modern looks for the home (including great rugs), is a work of DIY functional sculpture. You can hang the 2-in. cubes any which way you like, using nails or the double-sided sticky pads that come with the set. The timepiece runs on a single AA battery.
6.for surfer's up
Like other board-sport e-tailers, K5 has separate snow, skate and surf shops; browse by category or click Product Index for links to specific brands. The site's extensive selection of snowboards includes Burton's 2007 lineup plus this hot new one from Arbor: the Element All, $500, featuring a bamboo top sheet for extra snap between turns.
7.staying afloat
At Landfall Navigation you'll find nautical charts and other supplies for sailors, plus quirky gizmos like the $7 key buoy from Davis Instruments. The 14-in. tube inflates the moment your keys hit the water, propels them to the surface within 30 sec. and keeps them afloat for up to 40-min.-plenty of time for you to recover them after a wind-surfing wipeout.
8.geer up to work out!
Can the right bag motivate you to go to the gym? The Lug Puddle Jumper, $70, from ShopIntuition.com, has a separate compartment for shoes and other internal dividers to keep sweaty clothes away from clean. Extra side pockets help keep toiletries and other personal items organized. Comes in blue, orange, gray, pink or green.
很灵吧!~
Thursday, November 23, 2006
感恩节快乐
就在于有一群相互照应的朋友
相聚的时候欢笑
离别的时候思念
眉眼间藏着默契
每一次在别人面前的偷笑 都是因为彼此知道的典故和笑话
感恩 为了这样温暖的彼此拥有
我和你们
Wednesday, November 22, 2006
箴言。
Tuesday, November 14, 2006
在食堂里翻出来滴好吃滴。
Friday, November 10, 2006
Cheer Up~
Friday, November 3, 2006
Survivor.
还是很迷的。觉得好看。
这个东西就是把生活的残忍都放大了。
把日子都过成生命的最后一天。
把所有的人际关系都看成根本上的你死我活和战略中的合作伙伴。
If life is only a game to survive, how could you make yourself live on another day.